At this point everything’s on hold and we have no idea what is going on.
Originally we were going to have a small ceremony the 13ths (earlier this month) in Romeo’s parents’ backyard. My mother, however, got on a control kick (as she did with the planning during my first engagement) and was insistent on (what I and Romeo both felt was) controlling my wedding and turning it into something neither Romeo or I wanted. We mutually agreed to forgo it and place everything on hold, cancelling it.
Since then we’ve decided that we’re going to go through the name changes first to at least get his name switched to our chosen combined last name so that it will make it easier on us when we finally do get married…. When we’re getting married, though, we have no idea at this point and we’re not even sure is moving to Louisville by this time next year is even going to be a possibility, either.